Friday, February 01, 2008

Never Mind

We had made the offer to Frankee and she claimed she wanted the weekend to think about it. An hour later her sister called and said she was coming over with all the paperwork and a notary. I tried to call Frankee repeatedly but she refused to answer the phone, I know she had her sister's cell and asked her to call it for me. That was several hours ago and she has still not returned my call and all she knows is it is about Shyanne. I think she is drining or doing drugs so she won't answer. I went to her MySpace page and she talks about betrayal and how happy she is to be out of here and with her partying sister. I am so sad for Shyanne but we are done and she is already gone.

My kids have learned so much about us through this. They have seen and commented on the length we will go to help one of our "kids". They see what kind of parent walks away and they related this to their parents way of parenting. It is sweet to see them trying to comfort me b/c I am worried about Frankee and Shyanne's future. I think this helped us as a family. We will miss Shyanne and hope that her family steps up and does what is right by her.

5 comments:

Mongoose said...

Wow, that's so sad. I'm really sorry she's gone. :( Poor little girl. And poor you. I know you did everything you could. I wish I could come over and give you a big hug.

Yondalla said...

Tudu,

I have been sort of reading your blog for a couple of months. I say "sort of" because somehow I found you and put you on my reader. I just read things post by post and found it interesting, but was always just a bit lost.

I finally went to the beginning and read the whole thing.

I am humbled.

I hope you don't mind, 'cause it is too late. I wrote a post and told people to come read.

Innocent Observer said...

Oh poop. That really sucks. I hate having to again say, "I'm so sorry".

I really thought she was going to stay and have a real family and a real LOVING, NURTURING Mom.

Oh poop.

Mammy said...

Sorry to hear this - I know it has to be hard on you and your family. You're in my prayers:)

Tudu said...

It's all for the best, I am sure. Thanks for your support, it means the world to me.

Yondalla, I posted a comment on your blog about me. Thanks for saying all those nice things, it all went to my head.