Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Happy Birthday, Ruthie!

Ruthie turned 13 yrs old today. I couldn't be any more proud of her. The differences she has made and continues to make on a daily basis is nothing short of amazing. I think back to last year and how I felt about her. I was not comfortable with her living here again. Keeping my eyes on her 24/7 was exhausting. She was still having a hard time talking about all her feelings and behaviors. She refused to stay with me and had to be attached to me with a leash to keep the other kids safe.

Today, I never have to think about where she is. She always tells me when she leaves the room and finds her own partner if she wants to play somewhere beside next to me. She makes sure she is not only responsible for herself but lets me know if someone crosses the boundaries she needs to keep. She goes out of her way to make sure here siblings feels safe and no longer complains about that responsibility. She feels remorse for her previous actions. She communicates her needs and feelings like nobody's business. She is thoughtful and respectful. I love this child so much I ache. She is going to be successful and not because of anybody but herself. She made a choice to become a productive member of our family again and has grown beyond our greatest dreams. I can't wait to see what she does next.

6 comments:

Kelly said...

Happy Birthday to Ruthie. Such a sweet post. So proud of Ruthie!!!!

Fighting for my Children said...

Happy Birthday Ruthie!

Emma said...

Way to go, Ruthie!!! Great job.

MamaFoster said...

that is so awesome!

happy birthday sweet girl!

Lexie said...

I was in the exact same position she was in way back when I was around her age. Like her I was remorseful and learned my lesson. Although I couldn't undo the actions of my past my siblings have forgiven me and we have all moved on. It's just hard to look back and realize how sick I truly was and I'm learning to forgive myself for my past actions.

Kate said...

A very belated Happy Birthday and CONGRATULATIONS to Ruthie! So amazing.